Anonymous asked:This is the "just some advice" anon here. I-i'm sorry, I wasn't trying to be mean, I just wanted people to not take things so seriously. This probably won't help much at all, considering that the bile is already flowing in rivers, but...I'm sorry, if I offended someone, it wasn't my intention. I shouldn't give advice, ever, it's stupid, I just make people angry at me
I understand that you were trying to help, but honestly it’s kind of hard for me to ignore the fact that people are taking my character (who has stressed several times that she will not force herself on Anna) and making her a sex fiend who initiates without asking permission, and people accept it as cute.
Anonymous asked:Is there a certain point where triggers aren't even triggers and the person is just whining? What I mean are people who are "triggered" by concrete and skin. That's the point when I think it's just attention wanting. Disagree, agree?
…um, look. You don’t know what people have been through. How’d you like it if you had a trigger you were embarrassed by and someone said this to you? We all have triggers. Myself? I hate being around pine trees because when I was younger I was horseback riding and I wasn’t paying attention so the horse kind of wandered off the track. Before I knew what was happening the length of a pine branch (easily three feet long) scraped it’s way against my throat. And pine bark is not smooth. I bled for the entire ride back to the ranch, and I had the wounds for weeks.
And if we’re talking about sexually-related triggers, don’t joke. Ever.
Happy for you :D but wait, am I seeing a bit of a parallel between SiS Anna and Hans, and you and your cousin? I don't presume to know what you're cousin's like, but I do see the parallels in "everyone giving up on him except for me" between you and Sis!Anna. Whatever the case is, my heart goes out to you, and my heart goes out to your cousin. I wish you both the best.
I actually do see a lot of myself in Anna.
Anonymous asked:Why does the whole SIS x R9K thing bother you so much? It's mindless smut and while it is monstrously OOC, it doesn't have to bother you that much. Just some advice
It doesn’t bother me, but that kind of sexual dominance can be triggering to some people. Yes, for the sake of the art and the cuteness and the sexiness we ignore the fact that SiS!Elsa is essentially forcing herself on r9K!Elsa and we just assume that hey, r9k totally wants it. Not everyone is cool with that. Plus it’s kind of bugging me that everyone’s jumping on the “Suffering in Silence,” bandwagon when honestly in my opinion they really wouldn’t work together.
I don’t have a problem with it, all I’m asking is that people be respectful and tone it down.
So, I have to wonder: Elsa is essentially scared of human contact, and when she is forced to do it, she pulls into a shell and does the absolute bare minimum. But do we know what drew her to Anna? If that's explained in a future chapter, obviously don't spoil it. But I can't help but wonder what Anna has/had that kinda pulled her from her shell. (Please note that I can't figure out how to word this the way I want, so It's probably hard to understand. D:)
Oh don’t worry, there’s a reason…
Anonymous asked:Would you say you're attracted to Elsa? I mean, I'm waaaay attracted to both sisters.
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Thank you, love :)
- I’ve been on the Rosie O’Donnell show
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- I love horror movies
- I hate Twilight
- I hate 50 Shades of Gray
Anonymous asked:So what is your take on the SIS and r9k crossover plot?
People are making it too sexual. SiS!Elsa obviously has some pent-up frustrations that she’d love to have Anna alleviate, but I’ve stressed the importance of consent in my story. The whole “top/bottom” thing is being taken in a very extreme way that kind of goes against what I’m trying to do.
Especially since this fandom has a habit of over-sexualizing Elsa. Elsa is not a sex fiend. She’s terrified of human contact, especially from strangers. It doesn’t matter if r9k!Elsa is still Elsa, they’re different characters. The closest SiS!Elsa’s gotten to consensual sex would be smut novels, and we all know that that’s nothing like the real thing so… I would actually really appreciate it if people took it down a notch. Elsa’s not the kinda person to go all dominatrix on her partners.